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Ability to Love

“IIC 95: Trauma's Devastating Impact on Our Capacity to Love” - IIC Podcast - July 4, 2022

Abortion

“Healing in the Wake of Roe V. Wade w/ Dr. Gerry Crete” - Guest Appearance - June 27, 2022

Acceptance

“From Rejecting to Embracing Aging” - Weekly Reflection - December 21, 2022

Accepting the Body

“IIC 12: Bodyset: Accepting our Bodies – with Dr. Andrew Sodergren” - IIC Podcast - April 27, 2020

Aging

“From Rejecting to Embracing Aging” - Weekly Reflection - December 21, 2022

Alienation

“Loneliness vs. Alienation” - Guest Appearance - April 14, 2021

Attachment Wounds

“Healing Our Sexual Brokenness - 27th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 84” - Be With The Word - September 29, 2021

Avoiding God

“Why Do I Avoid God?” - Guest Appearance - March 1, 2021

Avoiding Love

“IIC 36: Why We Flee From Real Love” - IIC Podcast - October 5, 2020

Being Gaslighted

“IIC 122: Narcissism and Gaslighting--What Catholics Should Know” - IIC Podcast - October 2, 2023

Being Loved

“IIC 96: I Am a Rock: How Trauma Hardens Us Against Being Loved” - IIC Podcast - August 1, 2022

“Tolerating Being Loved” - Guest Appearance - April 28, 2021

Belief

“The Psychology of Doubt - Ascension - Episode 27” - Be With The Word - May 19, 2020

Blaming God

“Learning How to Hope Again - 3rd Sunday of Lent - Episode 16” - Be With The Word - March 10, 2020

Body

“Trauma and the Body” - Weekly Reflection - February 9, 2022

“Helping Daughters Develop a Healthy Body Image” - Weekly Reflection - April 30, 2020

“IIC 11: JR’s Story: What Happens When You Listen to Your Body” - IIC Podcast - April 24, 2020

Boundaries

“Boundaries Are Good” - - February 5, 2021

Catholic Identity

“Revealing Our True Nature with Dr. Gerry Crete” - Guest Appearance - June 1, 2022

Catholic Love

“IIC 94: The Primacy of Love” - IIC Podcast - June 6, 2022

Catholicism

“Catholics Discussing the Upsides of Daydreaming” - Weekly Reflection - August 16, 2023

“Catholics Discussing the Downsides of Daydreams” - Weekly Reflection - August 9, 2023

“A Catholic Researcher’s Reference List” - Weekly Reflection - August 2, 2023

“Does Jesus Have Parts?” - Weekly Reflection - July 12, 2023

“Reconciling IFS with Our Catholic Christian Faith” - Weekly Reflection - May 24, 2023

“Link’s Library: Catholic Human Formation Resources” - Weekly Reflection - May 17, 2023

“Catholic Human Formation Is a Lifelong Pilgrimage” - Weekly Reflection - April 5, 2023

“Catholic Understandings of Human Formation” - Weekly Reflection - March 29, 2023

“Moving Beyond Catholic Spiritual Bypassing” - Weekly Reflection - March 22, 2023

“The Causes and Effects of Catholic Spiritual Bypassing” - Weekly Reflection - March 15, 2023

“The 15 Symptoms of Catholic Spiritual Bypassing” - Weekly Reflection - March 8, 2023

“The Whys of Catholic Spiritual Bypassing” - Weekly Reflection - March 1, 2023

“Spiritual Bypassing: Catholic Style” - Weekly Reflection - February 22, 2023

“Naturalizing and Spiritualizing: Two Errors Catholics Make” - Weekly Reflection - February 15, 2023

“Catholic Being vs. Catholic Doing” - Weekly Reflection - December 28, 2022

“The Deepest Human Formation Work A Catholic Can Do” - Weekly Reflection - September 21, 2022

“Are You a Heretic? Distorted God Images Catholics Hold” - Weekly Reflection - September 14, 2022

“The Real Reason Adults Leave the Church” - Weekly Reflection - August 10, 2022

“The Sacramental Life of a Catholic Christian” - Weekly Reflection - December 23, 2020

“Why a Catholic Therapist?” - Weekly Reflection - July 2, 2020

“Making Spiritual and Social Communions” - Weekly Reflection - June 11, 2020

“What Is Catholic Meditation?” - Weekly Reflection - May 21, 2020

“The Role That Emotions Play in a Good Catholic’s Life” - Weekly Reflection - December 12, 2019

Charity

“IIC 36: Why We Flee From Real Love” - IIC Podcast - October 5, 2020

Childlike

“IIC 35: Being Both Big and Small” - IIC Podcast - September 28, 2020

“IIC 1: Our Natural Fear of Death is a Gift” - IIC Podcast - March 20, 2020

Children of God

“Discovering Who You Are” - Guest Appearance - January 30, 2020

Christian Love

“IIC 94: The Primacy of Love” - IIC Podcast - June 6, 2022

Christian Marriage

“Guided IFS Experiential Exercise” - Guest Appearance - February 27, 2023

“Experience Healing Through IFS” - Guest Appearance - February 20, 2023

Community

“The Need for Community” - Weekly Reflection - May 14, 2020

“IIC 8: The Chasm Between Psychology and Catholicism” - IIC Podcast - April 12, 2020

Conflict

“Temporary Enemies” - Weekly Reflection - March 23, 2022

“Six Reasons Catholics Don't Know their Enemies” - Weekly Reflection - March 16, 2022

“Definition of Enemies” - Weekly Reflection - March 9, 2022

“Ukraine” - Weekly Reflection - March 2, 2022

“Spiritual Warfare” - Weekly Reflection - February 24, 2022

“Presenting Truth and Accepting Persecution - 25th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 82” - Be With The Word - September 15, 2021

“Judging vs. Perceiving - Pentecost - Episode 74” - Be With The Word - May 19, 2021

“Ending Psychological Power Struggles - Pentecost - Episode 28” - Be With The Word - May 26, 2020

“Transform Conflict Into Better Relationships” - Weekly Reflection - April 23, 2020

“How Maintaining Relationships Through Disagreements Prepares Us For Heaven” - Weekly Reflection - February 27, 2020

Conscience

“Is That "Inner Voice" My Conscience?” - Weekly Reflection - June 8, 2022

Conspiracy Theory

“Talking With Friends and Family About Q'Anon” - Guest Appearance - March 5, 2021

Disappointment

“Learning How to Hope Again - 3rd Sunday of Lent - Episode 16” - Be With The Word - March 10, 2020

Discernment

“Discerning God’s Will After the Monastery” - Weekly Reflection - August 20, 2020

“Untangling God’s Love from Our Fallen Natures” - Weekly Reflection - August 13, 2020

“Is Discernment Ever Over? Answering the Call” - Weekly Reflection - July 9, 2020

“Overcoming Paralysis in Seeking God’s Will” - Weekly Reflection - May 7, 2020

Disconnected Parts

“Lent, Life and Death, and Dissociation - 1st Sunday of Lent - Episode 64” - Be With The Word - February 23, 2021

Distraction

“Distracted Prayers: Hidden Reasons for Avoiding God” - Weekly Reflection - January 25, 2023

“Distraction and Prayer: Satan, Symptoms, or Something Else?” - Weekly Reflection - January 11, 2023

Distractions

“Distractions in Prayer: When Our Parts Cry for Help” - Weekly Reflection - January 18, 2023

Divine Mercy

“Forgiveness and Divine Mercy - Divine Mercy Sunday - Episode 22” - Be With The Word - April 14, 2020

Doubt

“The Psychology of Doubt - Ascension - Episode 27” - Be With The Word - May 19, 2020

Effects of Trauma

“IIC 88: Trauma: Defining and Understanding the Experience” - IIC Podcast - January 3, 2022

Elements of Shame

“Shame, Shame, Go Away” - - February 15, 2021

Eucharist

“IIC 3: Grief Over the Loss of the Eucharist” - IIC Podcast - March 27, 2020

Experience of Grief

“IIC 83: The Internal Dance of Healthy Grief” - IIC Podcast - August 30, 2021

“IIC 81: Grieving is the Price We Pay for Loving” - IIC Podcast - August 16, 2021

Experiential Exercise

“IIC 124: Your Parts, IFS, And War: An Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - October 18, 2023

“IIC 121: Connecting with Your Own Narcissistic Parts: Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - September 18, 2023

“IIC 117: Discover the Parts Who Make Up Your "Personality"” - IIC Podcast - July 17, 2023

“IIC 111: Approaching my Anger from the Other Side: Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - April 17, 2023

“IIC 110: Being with Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane – Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - April 5, 2023

“IIC 108: Giving up the Idols We Hate -- Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - March 20, 2023

“IIC 104: Connecting with your Angry Parts -- Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - January 16, 2023

“IIC 102: Helping your Parts Get the Love They Need: Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - December 19, 2022

“IIC 100: Embracing God's Love for Me: Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - November 21, 2022

“IIC 97: Unlove of Self: How Trauma Predisposes You to Self-Hatred and Indifference” - IIC Podcast - September 5, 2022

“IIC 93: Three Inner Experiential Exercises” - IIC Podcast - May 2, 2022

“IIC 89: Your Trauma, Your Body: Protection vs. Connection” - IIC Podcast - February 7, 2022

“IIC 88: Trauma: Defining and Understanding the Experience” - IIC Podcast - January 3, 2022

“IIC 80: How to Help a Loved One Who is Suicidal” - IIC Podcast - August 9, 2021

“IIC 74: Internal Chaos and Blending vs. Internal Peace and Integration” - IIC Podcast - June 28, 2021

“IIC 71: A New and Better Way of Understanding Myself and Others” - IIC Podcast - June 7, 2021

“IIC 63: Human Formation: The Critical Missing Element” - IIC Podcast - April 12, 2021

“IIC 44: Rape, Incest, Shame, and Silence: A True Story Reexamined, Part 3” - IIC Podcast - November 30, 2020

“IIC 43: Rape, Incest, Shame, and Silence: A True Story Reexamined, Part 2” - IIC Podcast - November 23, 2020

“IIC 41: Rewind: Trauma and Shame in King David's Childhood” - IIC Podcast - November 9, 2020

“IIC 40: Rape, Incest, Shame, and Silence: A True Story Reexamined, Part 1” - IIC Podcast - November 2, 2020

“IIC 33: Being Open and Coping Well” - IIC Podcast - September 14, 2020

“IIC 10: Your Catholic Body and Crisis: Bodyset” - IIC Podcast - April 20, 2020

“IIC 7: The Huge Mistake We Make with our Emotions in a Crisis” - IIC Podcast - April 10, 2020

“IIC 5: Your Catholic Mindset and Resilience in Crisis” - IIC Podcast - April 3, 2020

“The Secret to Uncover What's Bothering You” - Guest Appearance - February 4, 2020

Family

“Your Tor-Mentors: God's Gift to You at Thanksgiving” - Weekly Reflection - November 22, 2023

“IIC 123: Relating Well with Narcissistic Family Members with Dr. Gerry Crete” - IIC Podcast - October 16, 2023

“Through the Eyes of a Catholic Toddler” - Weekly Reflection - August 17, 2022

“Who’s Your Daddy? Confusion Over Our Primary Parents” - Weekly Reflection - August 3, 2022

“Loving a Parent Who Doesn’t Love You” - Weekly Reflection - July 27, 2022

“How Parents Use Their Children To Avoid Feeling Shame” - Weekly Reflection - July 20, 2022

“The Sins of the Parents – Conveniently Denied” - Weekly Reflection - July 13, 2022

“The Sins of the Fathers: Unexpressed Love” - Weekly Reflection - July 6, 2022

“On Vaccine Mandates, Contempt, Families and Thanksgiving…” - Weekly Reflection - November 23, 2021

“Understanding the Meaning of Beauty in a Family” - Weekly Reflection - September 10, 2020

“A Narcissist in the Family” - Weekly Reflection - July 30, 2020

“Helping Daughters Develop a Healthy Body Image” - Weekly Reflection - April 30, 2020

“Smart Parenting in the Smartphone Era: Part II Using Resources” - Weekly Reflection - February 13, 2020

“Smart Parenting in the Smartphone Era Part I: Know the Risks” - Weekly Reflection - February 6, 2020

“Changing Yourself First To Help Your Children” - Weekly Reflection - January 9, 2020

“How To Make a Positive Change in Your Family System - Feast of the Holy Family - Episode 5” - Be With The Word - December 24, 2019

“How to Manage Teens and Screens” - Weekly Reflection - December 6, 2019

Fear of God

“IIC 105: How You Hide From Your Anger at God” - IIC Podcast - February 6, 2023

Fearlessness

“The Psychology of Courage” - Guest Appearance - June 9, 2021

“How to Triumph Over Fear - 12th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 31” - Be With The Word - June 15, 2020

Free Will

“Sin, Self, Free Will, Hell, and IFS: A Conversation” - Weekly Reflection - July 5, 2023

“The Role of Free Will in Addictive Behavior” - Weekly Reflection - March 12, 2020

Freedom

“Legalism vs. License – Two Bad Options for Sheep” - Weekly Reflection - November 9, 2022

“The Whys of Catholic Legalism – With Solutions” - Weekly Reflection - November 2, 2022

Gifts

“All Is Gift — Unrecognized Gifts from God” - Weekly Reflection - December 29, 2021

“Judging vs. Perceiving - Pentecost - Episode 74” - Be With The Word - May 19, 2021

“Choosing to Be Grateful - Epiphany - Episode 6” - Be With The Word - December 31, 2019

Gifts of the Holy Spirit

“Judging vs. Perceiving - Pentecost - Episode 74” - Be With The Word - May 19, 2021

God Images

“IIC 100: Embracing God's Love for Me: Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - November 21, 2022

“Are You a Heretic? Distorted God Images Catholics Hold” - Weekly Reflection - September 14, 2022

“Why Do I Avoid God?” - Guest Appearance - March 1, 2021

“IIC 45: How Shame Leads Us to Idolatry” - IIC Podcast - December 7, 2020

“Blind Spots Can Be Deadly - 28th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 47” - Be With The Word - October 6, 2020

“IIC 29: Magic Genie Gods and Party-Pooper Gods” - IIC Podcast - August 17, 2020

“Four Essentials For God To Grant Your Heart’s Desire - 20th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 39” - Be With The Word - August 11, 2020

“IIC 28: Police Detective Gods, Pushy Salesman Gods, and Heartbreaker Gods” - IIC Podcast - August 10, 2020

“IIC 27: Robber Gods, Aristocrat Gods and Marshmallow Gods” - IIC Podcast - August 3, 2020

“IIC 26: Dictator, Pharisee, and Scrooge God Image” - IIC Podcast - July 27, 2020

“IIC 25: Drill Sergeant Gods, Statue Gods, and Preoccupied Manager” - IIC Podcast - July 20, 2020

“IIC 24: God Images and Self Images” - IIC Podcast - July 13, 2020

“IIC 23: Sinning, God Images and Resilience” - IIC Podcast - July 6, 2020

“Receiving Comfort From God - 14th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 33” - Be With The Word - June 30, 2020

“How Unconscious God Images Harm Our Spiritual Lives - Trinity Sunday - Episode 29” - Be With The Word - June 1, 2020

“Developing a Firm Confidence in God - 3rd Sunday of Easter - Episode 23” - Be With The Word - April 21, 2020

“Learning How God Delights in Us - 2nd Sunday of Lent - Episode 15” - Be With The Word - March 3, 2020

“Facing Our Distorted Images of God” - Weekly Reflection - January 2, 2020

Gratitude

“Thanksgiving: Skin-Deep vs. Profound” - Weekly Reflection - November 23, 2022

“Choosing to Be Grateful - Epiphany - Episode 6” - Be With The Word - December 31, 2019

“Embrace a Healthy and Holy Attitude of Gratitude” - Weekly Reflection - November 28, 2019

Healing from Trauma

“Christ's Body Keeps the Score - 2nd Sunday of Easter - Episode 70” - Be With The Word - April 6, 2021

“Trauma-Fueled Behaviors” - Guest Appearance - September 21, 2020

“Trauma and Healing: Forgiveness Is Not Required” - Weekly Reflection - July 23, 2020

Healthy Sexuality

“IIC 50: In Search of a Healthy, Ordered Sexuality” - IIC Podcast - January 11, 2021

Hearing God's Call

“Letting Go of Self-Sufficiency - 4th Sunday of Advent - Episode 4” - Be With The Word - December 17, 2019

Holidays

“Shift Activities to Avoid the Holiday Blues” - Weekly Reflection - December 16, 2020

“Revise Your Advent Preparation” - Weekly Reflection - December 2, 2020

“We Are an Easter People!” - Weekly Reflection - August 27, 2020

Holy Indifference

“Emotions Are Morally Neutral - 7th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 13” - Be With The Word - February 18, 2020

Homeschooling

“Homeschooling and Mental Health” - Guest Appearance - May 26, 2021

Human Formation

“Human Formation in Purgatory? Yes, Indeed.” - Weekly Reflection - November 29, 2023

“A Catholic Researcher’s Reference List” - Weekly Reflection - August 2, 2023

“Link’s Library: Catholic Human Formation Resources” - Weekly Reflection - May 17, 2023

“On the Importance of C+ Work in Human Formation” - Weekly Reflection - May 10, 2023

“On the Metaphysics of Human Formation” - Weekly Reflection - May 3, 2023

“On the Metaphysics of the Human Person” - Weekly Reflection - April 26, 2023

“The "Whys" of Human Formation” - Weekly Reflection - April 19, 2023

“Who Forms Your Clay?” - Weekly Reflection - April 12, 2023

“Catholic Human Formation Is a Lifelong Pilgrimage” - Weekly Reflection - April 5, 2023

“Catholic Understandings of Human Formation” - Weekly Reflection - March 29, 2023

“Distracted Prayers: Hidden Reasons for Avoiding God” - Weekly Reflection - January 25, 2023

“Distractions in Prayer: When Our Parts Cry for Help” - Weekly Reflection - January 18, 2023

“Distraction and Prayer: Satan, Symptoms, or Something Else?” - Weekly Reflection - January 11, 2023

“The Secret Psychological Reasons We Fail to Make Time for Prayer” - Weekly Reflection - January 4, 2023

“Catholic Being vs. Catholic Doing” - Weekly Reflection - December 28, 2022

“From Rejecting to Embracing Aging” - Weekly Reflection - December 21, 2022

“IIC 102: Helping your Parts Get the Love They Need: Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - December 19, 2022

“IIC 100: Embracing God's Love for Me: Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - November 21, 2022

“IIC 99: Why We Catholics Reject God's Love for Us and How to Embrace That Love” - IIC Podcast - November 7, 2022

“The Deepest Human Formation Work A Catholic Can Do” - Weekly Reflection - September 21, 2022

“Interview with Dr. Peter Malinoski: "Human Formation Is Essential to Catholic Formation"” - Guest Appearance - August 24, 2021

“IIC 63: Human Formation: The Critical Missing Element” - IIC Podcast - April 12, 2021

“IIC 21: How Secular Experts Get Resilience Wrong” - IIC Podcast - June 22, 2020

“IIC 8: The Chasm Between Psychology and Catholicism” - IIC Podcast - April 12, 2020

IFS

“IIC 124: Your Parts, IFS, And War: An Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - October 18, 2023

“Your Parts, IFS, and War in the Middle East” - Weekly Reflection - October 18, 2023

“How to Help Your Parts Get Their Needs Met by Working with Daydreams” - Weekly Reflection - October 12, 2023

“The Three Essential Relationships (Part 2: Myself) with Dr. Peter Malinoski” - Guest Appearance - October 12, 2023

“The Eight Steps to Understand Your Parts Through Exploring Your Daydreams” - Weekly Reflection - October 4, 2023

“IIC 122: Narcissism and Gaslighting--What Catholics Should Know” - IIC Podcast - October 2, 2023

“IIC 120: Understanding Narcissism More Deeply with IFS” - IIC Podcast - September 4, 2023

“IIC 115: Unburdening in Internal Family Systems -- A Catholic Discussion” - IIC Podcast - June 19, 2023

“IIC 113: A Demonstration of IFS and Your Questions About Anger” - IIC Podcast - May 15, 2023

“IIC 112: Assuaging Raging Hearts and Parts: Managing Anger with IFS Way of Understanding Myself and Others” - IIC Podcast - May 1, 2023

“Unburdening Sexual Arousal (with Dr. Peter Malinoski)” - Guest Appearance - March 6, 2023

“IIC 106: God in the Hands of Angry Sinners -- Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - February 20, 2023

“IIC 87: Scrupulosity: When OCD Gets Religion” - IIC Podcast - December 6, 2021

“Resolving Inner Conflicts by Understanding Our "Wicked" Parts - 23rd Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 81” - Be With The Word - September 1, 2021

“Where do Evil Thoughts Come from? - 22nd Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 80” - Be With The Word - August 25, 2021

“Being Human Podcast - Episode 36: A Guided Exercise w/ Dr. Peter Malinoski” - Guest Appearance - August 17, 2021

“IIC 75: The Blue and the Orange: Reconsidering Depression and Mania Through the Lens of Parts” - IIC Podcast - July 5, 2021

“IIC 73: Is Internal Family Systems Really Catholic?” - IIC Podcast - June 21, 2021

“Ask a Catholic Therapist ANYTHING! W/ Dr. Gerry Crete” - Guest Appearance - June 17, 2021

“IIC 71: A New and Better Way of Understanding Myself and Others” - IIC Podcast - June 7, 2021

“IIC 42: Practice Deep Listening: Understanding King David's Shame” - IIC Podcast - November 16, 2020

Identity

“IIC 117: Discover the Parts Who Make Up Your "Personality"” - IIC Podcast - July 17, 2023

“Who Forms Your Clay?” - Weekly Reflection - April 12, 2023

“Of Mirrors and Identity: The Hardest Question” - Weekly Reflection - September 28, 2022

“Why I Reject the Concept of “Personality”” - Weekly Reflection - August 24, 2022

“Revealing Our True Nature with Dr. Gerry Crete” - Guest Appearance - June 1, 2022

“IIC 75: The Blue and the Orange: Reconsidering Depression and Mania Through the Lens of Parts” - IIC Podcast - July 5, 2021

“Role of Faith in Healing Depression - 13th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 77” - Be With The Word - June 24, 2021

“Love vs Codependency and People Pleasing - 6th Sunday of Easter - Episode 72” - Be With The Word - May 5, 2021

“Overcoming Shame Despite Loss and Suffering - Palm Sunday - Episode 69” - Be With The Word - March 26, 2021

“Why We Do Wicked Things - 4th Sunday of Lent - Episode 67” - Be With The Word - March 10, 2021

“What It Means to Be a Good Man and a Good Father - 4th Sunday of Advent - Episode 57” - Be With The Word - December 15, 2020

“The Lies We Tell Ourselves in Life Stories - All Saints Day - Episode 50” - Be With The Word - October 27, 2020

“Understanding Superiority Complexes - 30th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 49” - Be With The Word - October 20, 2020

“Blind Spots Can Be Deadly - 28th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 47” - Be With The Word - October 6, 2020

“Work is Not a Four-Lettered Word - 25th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 44” - Be With The Word - September 15, 2020

“Being Lost and How To Be Found - 21st Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 40” - Be With The Word - August 18, 2020

“IIC 16: Who Am I, Really? Identity and Resiliency” - IIC Podcast - May 18, 2020

“Are You for Real?” - Weekly Reflection - March 5, 2020

“Emotions Are Morally Neutral - 7th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 13” - Be With The Word - February 18, 2020

“The Secret to Uncover What's Bothering You” - Guest Appearance - February 4, 2020

“Discovering Who You Are” - Guest Appearance - January 30, 2020

“Asking Mary to Reveal the Thoughts of our Hearts - Presentation of the Lord - Episode 10” - Be With The Word - January 28, 2020

“Mental Filters Keep Us From Really Knowing Jesus - 2nd Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 8” - Be With The Word - January 14, 2020

Idolatry

“The Top 10 Needs That Fuel Modern-Day Idol Worship” - Weekly Reflection - September 6, 2022

Imagination

“Harnessing the Good in Daydreams with St. Ignatius” - Weekly Reflection - September 27, 2023

Inner Experience

“What Your Daydreams Tell You About Your Relationships” - Weekly Reflection - September 20, 2023

“IIC 78: The Desperate Inner Experience of Suicidality” - IIC Podcast - July 26, 2021

Inner Peace

“Finding True Peace - 16th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 78” - Be With The Word - July 15, 2021

Inner Work

“The Importance of Inner Work” - Guest Appearance - May 27, 2021

Interior Integration for Catholics Podcast

“IIC 84: The Who, What, Where, When, Why and How of the IIC Podcast” - IIC Podcast - September 6, 2021

Internal Battles

“IIC 93: Three Inner Experiential Exercises” - IIC Podcast - May 2, 2022

Internal Family Systems

“Your Parts, IFS, and War in the Middle East” - Weekly Reflection - October 18, 2023

“How to Help Your Parts Get Their Needs Met by Working with Daydreams” - Weekly Reflection - October 12, 2023

“The Three Essential Relationships (Part 2: Myself) with Dr. Peter Malinoski” - Guest Appearance - October 12, 2023

“The Eight Steps to Understand Your Parts Through Exploring Your Daydreams” - Weekly Reflection - October 4, 2023

“Gently Approaching What Underlies Problematic Daydreams” - Weekly Reflection - September 13, 2023

“IIC 120: Understanding Narcissism More Deeply with IFS” - IIC Podcast - September 4, 2023

“Does Jesus Have Parts?” - Weekly Reflection - July 12, 2023

“Sin, Self, Free Will, Hell, and IFS: A Conversation” - Weekly Reflection - July 5, 2023

“The Institution of the Eucharist: Illuminating Parts Through the Luminous Mysteries” - Weekly Reflection - June 28, 2023

“The Transfiguration of Jesus: Illuminating Parts Through the Luminous Mysteries” - Weekly Reflection - June 21, 2023

“IIC 115: Unburdening in Internal Family Systems -- A Catholic Discussion” - IIC Podcast - June 19, 2023

“Proclamation of the Kingdom: Illuminating Parts through the Luminous Mysteries” - Weekly Reflection - June 14, 2023

“The Wedding at Cana: Illuminating Parts Through the Luminous Mysteries” - Weekly Reflection - June 7, 2023

“The Baptism of Jesus: Illuminating Parts Through the Luminous Mysteries” - Weekly Reflection - May 31, 2023

“Reconciling IFS with Our Catholic Christian Faith” - Weekly Reflection - May 24, 2023

“IIC 113: A Demonstration of IFS and Your Questions About Anger” - IIC Podcast - May 15, 2023

“IIC 112: Assuaging Raging Hearts and Parts: Managing Anger with IFS Way of Understanding Myself and Others” - IIC Podcast - May 1, 2023

“Unburdening Sexual Arousal (with Dr. Peter Malinoski)” - Guest Appearance - March 6, 2023

“IIC 106: God in the Hands of Angry Sinners -- Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - February 20, 2023

“Loving Conversations on Controversial Subjects: A Parts-Informed Approach ” - Weekly Reflection - February 1, 2023

“Distractions in Prayer: When Our Parts Cry for Help” - Weekly Reflection - January 18, 2023

“The Conflicting Loves Inside You” - Weekly Reflection - June 29, 2022

“Ukraine” - Weekly Reflection - March 2, 2022

“IIC 87: Scrupulosity: When OCD Gets Religion” - IIC Podcast - December 6, 2021

“Inner Pre-Evangelization: A Focus on Internal Trust” - Weekly Reflection - December 1, 2021

“Where do Evil Thoughts Come from? - 22nd Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 80” - Be With The Word - August 25, 2021

“Being Human Podcast - Episode 36: A Guided Exercise w/ Dr. Peter Malinoski” - Guest Appearance - August 17, 2021

“IIC 75: The Blue and the Orange: Reconsidering Depression and Mania Through the Lens of Parts” - IIC Podcast - July 5, 2021

“IIC 73: Is Internal Family Systems Really Catholic?” - IIC Podcast - June 21, 2021

“Ask a Catholic Therapist ANYTHING! W/ Dr. Gerry Crete” - Guest Appearance - June 17, 2021

“IIC 71: A New and Better Way of Understanding Myself and Others” - IIC Podcast - June 7, 2021

“IIC 42: Practice Deep Listening: Understanding King David's Shame” - IIC Podcast - November 16, 2020

Interpersonal Neurobiology

“IIC 92: Understanding and Healing Your Mind Through IPNB” - IIC Podcast - April 4, 2022

Intimacy with God

“IIC 34: Radical Receptivity” - IIC Podcast - September 21, 2020

Introversion

“What Does It Mean to Be an Introvert? - Ascension - Episode 73” - Be With The Word - May 12, 2021

Intrusive Thoughts

“The Secret to Uncover What's Bothering You” - Guest Appearance - February 4, 2020

Justice

“Understanding Justice and Justification” - Weekly Reflection - June 18, 2020

Legalism

“Legalism vs. License – Two Bad Options for Sheep” - Weekly Reflection - November 9, 2022

“The Whys of Catholic Legalism – With Solutions” - Weekly Reflection - November 2, 2022

Leisure

“Made for Leisure” - Weekly Reflection - October 8, 2020

Letting Go

“God Heals Our Deepest Wounds - 4th Sunday of Lent - Episode 17” - Be With The Word - March 17, 2020

License

“Legalism vs. License – Two Bad Options for Sheep” - Weekly Reflection - November 9, 2022

“The Whys of Catholic Legalism – With Solutions” - Weekly Reflection - November 2, 2022

Litany

“Litany for a Burnt-Out Soul” - Guest Appearance - December 10, 2022

Living in the Moment

“Living in the Moment - 5th Sunday of Lent - Episode 18” - Be With The Word - March 21, 2020

Loneliness

“Loneliness vs. Alienation” - Guest Appearance - April 14, 2021

Love

“IIC 102: Helping your Parts Get the Love They Need: Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - December 19, 2022

“IIC 101: A Story About Receiving Love” - IIC Podcast - December 5, 2022

“IIC 100: Embracing God's Love for Me: Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - November 21, 2022

“IIC 99: Why We Catholics Reject God's Love for Us and How to Embrace That Love” - IIC Podcast - November 7, 2022

“IIC 98: Self-Love: What Catholics Need to Know” - IIC Podcast - October 3, 2022

“IIC 97: Unlove of Self: How Trauma Predisposes You to Self-Hatred and Indifference” - IIC Podcast - September 5, 2022

“IIC 96: I Am a Rock: How Trauma Hardens Us Against Being Loved” - IIC Podcast - August 1, 2022

“Loving a Parent Who Doesn’t Love You” - Weekly Reflection - July 27, 2022

“IIC 95: Trauma's Devastating Impact on Our Capacity to Love” - IIC Podcast - July 4, 2022

“IIC 94: The Primacy of Love” - IIC Podcast - June 6, 2022

“IIC 93: Three Inner Experiential Exercises” - IIC Podcast - May 2, 2022

“Three Elements of Loving” - Weekly Reflection - February 17, 2022

“IIC 82: The Many Faces of Grief Inside Us” - IIC Podcast - August 23, 2021

“IIC 81: Grieving is the Price We Pay for Loving” - IIC Podcast - August 16, 2021

“IIC 80: How to Help a Loved One Who is Suicidal” - IIC Podcast - August 9, 2021

“Finding True Peace Through Humility, Gentleness, and Patience - 17th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 79” - Be With The Word - July 22, 2021

“IIC 75: The Blue and the Orange: Reconsidering Depression and Mania Through the Lens of Parts” - IIC Podcast - July 5, 2021

“IIC 74: Internal Chaos and Blending vs. Internal Peace and Integration” - IIC Podcast - June 28, 2021

“IIC 72: What Keeps You from Loving? Is it Really Only Your Vices? (Spoiler Alert: No!)” - IIC Podcast - June 14, 2021

“IIC 71: A New and Better Way of Understanding Myself and Others” - IIC Podcast - June 7, 2021

“Love vs Codependency and People Pleasing - 6th Sunday of Easter - Episode 72” - Be With The Word - May 5, 2021

“Tolerating Being Loved” - Guest Appearance - April 28, 2021

“Learning From Suffering - 5th Sunday of Lent - Episode 68” - Be With The Word - March 17, 2021

“Loving People We Disagree With - 3rd Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 62” - Be With The Word - January 19, 2021

“Surviving the Holiday Blues - 3rd Sunday of Advent - Episode 56” - Be With The Word - December 8, 2020

“IIC 36: Why We Flee From Real Love” - IIC Podcast - October 5, 2020

“Work is Not a Four-Lettered Word - 25th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 44” - Be With The Word - September 15, 2020

“Three Principles of Exercising Real Love - 23rd Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 42” - Be With The Word - September 1, 2020

“The Real Reason to Be Obedient - 6th Sunday of Easter - Episode 26” - Be With The Word - May 12, 2020

“Psychological Barriers to Recognizing Jesus - 5th Sunday of Easter - Episode 25” - Be With The Word - May 5, 2020

“IIC 13: Bodyset: Loving and Reverencing Our Bodies – With Dr. Andrew Sodergren” - IIC Podcast - May 1, 2020

“Brain Development and Addictive Cycles” - Guest Appearance - March 5, 2020

“How My History with Authority Figures Affects My Relationship with God - 6th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 12” - Be With The Word - February 11, 2020

Lying

“On “Mental Reservation” and Examining Our Motives” - Weekly Reflection - June 1, 2022

“Six Reasons for Catholics To Not Tell the Whole Truth” - Weekly Reflection - May 25, 2022

“Seeking Truth vs. Not Lying” - Weekly Reflection - May 18, 2022

“Santa and Myth (Gabriel Crawford)” - Weekly Reflection - May 11, 2022

“Santa and Lying” - Weekly Reflection - May 4, 2022

“Justifying Lyings” - Weekly Reflection - April 27, 2022

“Lying” - Weekly Reflection - April 20, 2022

Marital Infidelity

“IIC 64: Subtle Ways Catholics Cheat on their Spouses: How and Why” - IIC Podcast - April 19, 2021

Marriage

“Guided IFS Experiential Exercise” - Guest Appearance - February 27, 2023

“Experience Healing Through IFS” - Guest Appearance - February 20, 2023

“IIC 70: Catholic Sex and the Four Pillars -- and the Dos and Don'ts of Sharing about your Sexual Life” - IIC Podcast - May 31, 2021

“IIC 69: Good and Bad Sex in Catholic Marriages: What are the Moral Limits?” - IIC Podcast - May 24, 2021

“Judging vs. Perceiving - Pentecost - Episode 74” - Be With The Word - May 19, 2021

“IIC 68: Improving Sexual Intimacy in Catholic Marriages” - IIC Podcast - May 17, 2021

“IIC 67: Catholic and UnCatholic Sex in Catholic Marriages” - IIC Podcast - May 10, 2021

“IIC 66: Acceptance vs. Endorsement: A Critical Difference in Catholic Marriages” - IIC Podcast - May 3, 2021

“IIC 65: Why Catholic Spouses Find It Hard to Empathize with Each Other, Especially About Sex -- with Solutions” - IIC Podcast - April 26, 2021

“IIC 64: Subtle Ways Catholics Cheat on their Spouses: How and Why” - IIC Podcast - April 19, 2021

“IIC 61: Fractured, Fragmented Sex in Catholic Marriages” - IIC Podcast - March 29, 2021

“IIC 60: How Well Do You Really Know Your Spouse” - IIC Podcast - March 22, 2021

“IIC 59: Mystery, Covenant, Vocation, and Being "Submissive" in the Marriage Bed” - IIC Podcast - March 15, 2021

“IIC 58: The Catholic Marriage Bed” - IIC Podcast - March 8, 2021

“IIC 57: The One Main Psychological Reason Why Catholic Marriages Fail” - IIC Podcast - March 1, 2021

“The Psychology of Money in the Sacrament of Marriage” - Weekly Reflection - May 28, 2020

“How To Make a Positive Change in Your Family System - Feast of the Holy Family - Episode 5” - Be With The Word - December 24, 2019

Masturbation

“Anti-Masturbationism – A False Religion” - Weekly Reflection - November 16, 2022

“IIC 54: Masturbation Recovery Stories” - IIC Podcast - February 8, 2021

“IIC 53: Breaking Free from Masturbation, Part 2” - IIC Podcast - February 1, 2021

“IIC 52: Breaking Free from Masturbation, Part 1” - IIC Podcast - January 25, 2021

“IIC 51: Top Ten Reasons Why Catholic Men Masturbate” - IIC Podcast - January 18, 2021

Meditation

“What Is Catholic Meditation?” - Weekly Reflection - May 21, 2020

“Can Catholics Practice Mindfulness?” - Weekly Reflection - January 30, 2020

Mental Health

“IIC 90: Your Well-Being: The Secular Experts Speak” - IIC Podcast - March 7, 2022

“The Importance of Inner Work” - Guest Appearance - May 27, 2021

“Homeschooling and Mental Health” - Guest Appearance - May 26, 2021

Metaphysics

“The Metaphysics of Voluntariness” - Weekly Reflection - August 30, 2023

“The Metaphysics of the Human Act” - Weekly Reflection - August 23, 2023

“On the Metaphysics of Human Formation” - Weekly Reflection - May 3, 2023

“On the Metaphysics of the Human Person” - Weekly Reflection - April 26, 2023

Mind-Body Connection

“Christ's Body Keeps the Score - 2nd Sunday of Easter - Episode 70” - Be With The Word - April 6, 2021

Mindfulness

“Can Catholics Practice Mindfulness?” - Weekly Reflection - January 30, 2020

“Mindfulness, Self-Care, and Dealing with Stress” - Guest Appearance - March 26, 2019

Morality

“The Metaphysics of Voluntariness” - Weekly Reflection - August 30, 2023

“The Metaphysics of the Human Act” - Weekly Reflection - August 23, 2023

Myers-Briggs Personality

“Judging vs. Perceiving - Pentecost - Episode 74” - Be With The Word - May 19, 2021

Narcissistic Family

“How to Deal With a Narcissist with Dr. Peter Malinoski” - Guest Appearance - December 2, 2023

“IIC 123: Relating Well with Narcissistic Family Members with Dr. Gerry Crete” - IIC Podcast - October 16, 2023

“A Narcissist in the Family” - Weekly Reflection - July 30, 2020

Natural

“Naturalizing and Spiritualizing: Two Errors Catholics Make” - Weekly Reflection - February 15, 2023

Obsessive Thinking

“The Key to Stopping Scrupulosity - 3rd Sun of Easter - Episode 71” - Be With The Word - April 14, 2021

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder

“IIC 86: Obsessions, Compulsions, OCD, and Internal Family Systems” - IIC Podcast - November 1, 2021

Openness

“Openess vs. Receptivity” - Guest Appearance - April 21, 2021

“IIC 34: Radical Receptivity” - IIC Podcast - September 21, 2020

“IIC 33: Being Open and Coping Well” - IIC Podcast - September 14, 2020

Opportunity for Suffering

“A Unique Opportunity for Redemptive Suffering - Good Friday - Episode 20” - Be With The Word - April 6, 2020

Overcoming Masturbation

“IIC 52: Breaking Free from Masturbation, Part 1” - IIC Podcast - January 25, 2021

Overcoming Temptation

“Sinful Temptations Often Reveal Legitimate Needs - 1st Sunday of Lent - Episode 14” - Be With The Word - February 21, 2020

Parasympathetic Nervous System

“Abraham and the Parasympathetic Nervous System - 2nd Sunday of Lent - Episode 65” - Be With The Word - February 23, 2021

Parents

“Who’s Your Daddy? Confusion Over Our Primary Parents” - Weekly Reflection - August 3, 2022

“Loving a Parent Who Doesn’t Love You” - Weekly Reflection - July 27, 2022

“The Sins of the Parents – Conveniently Denied” - Weekly Reflection - July 13, 2022

Parts

“IIC 124: Your Parts, IFS, And War: An Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - October 18, 2023

“Your Parts, IFS, and War in the Middle East” - Weekly Reflection - October 18, 2023

“The Eight Steps to Understand Your Parts Through Exploring Your Daydreams” - Weekly Reflection - October 4, 2023

“What Your Daydreams Tell You About Your Relationships” - Weekly Reflection - September 20, 2023

“IIC 121: Connecting with Your Own Narcissistic Parts: Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - September 18, 2023

“IIC 117: Discover the Parts Who Make Up Your "Personality"” - IIC Podcast - July 17, 2023

“IIC 116: Why a Single Personality Is Not Enough” - IIC Podcast - July 3, 2023

“IIC 115: Unburdening in Internal Family Systems -- A Catholic Discussion” - IIC Podcast - June 19, 2023

“IIC 112: Assuaging Raging Hearts and Parts: Managing Anger with IFS Way of Understanding Myself and Others” - IIC Podcast - May 1, 2023

“IIC 111: Approaching my Anger from the Other Side: Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - April 17, 2023

“IIC 108: Giving up the Idols We Hate -- Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - March 20, 2023

“Guided IFS Experiential Exercise” - Guest Appearance - February 27, 2023

“IIC 100: Embracing God's Love for Me: Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - November 21, 2022

“Why I Reject the Concept of “Personality”” - Weekly Reflection - August 24, 2022

“Revealing Our True Nature with Dr. Gerry Crete” - Guest Appearance - June 1, 2022

“Resolving Inner Conflicts by Understanding Our "Wicked" Parts - 23rd Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 81” - Be With The Word - September 1, 2021

“IIC 83: The Internal Dance of Healthy Grief” - IIC Podcast - August 30, 2021

“Where do Evil Thoughts Come from? - 22nd Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 80” - Be With The Word - August 25, 2021

“Being Human Podcast - Episode 36: A Guided Exercise w/ Dr. Peter Malinoski” - Guest Appearance - August 17, 2021

“IIC 75: The Blue and the Orange: Reconsidering Depression and Mania Through the Lens of Parts” - IIC Podcast - July 5, 2021

“Ask a Catholic Therapist ANYTHING! W/ Dr. Gerry Crete” - Guest Appearance - June 17, 2021

“Why Do I Avoid God?” - Guest Appearance - March 1, 2021

Philosophical Worldview

“Presenting Truth and Accepting Persecution - 25th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 82” - Be With The Word - September 15, 2021

Politics

“Talking With Friends and Family About Q'Anon” - Guest Appearance - March 5, 2021

Polyvagal Theory

“IIC 89: Your Trauma, Your Body: Protection vs. Connection” - IIC Podcast - February 7, 2022

Porn

“Guided IFS Experiential Exercise” - Guest Appearance - February 27, 2023

“Experience Healing Through IFS” - Guest Appearance - February 20, 2023

“IIC 56: What is Essential for Catholics to Recover from Pornography” - IIC Podcast - February 22, 2021

“IIC 55: Why Catholics Use Pornography” - IIC Podcast - February 15, 2021

“Healing From Porn Addiction” - Guest Appearance - September 3, 2020

Porn Addiction

“IIC 55: Why Catholics Use Pornography” - IIC Podcast - February 15, 2021

“Healing From Porn Addiction” - Guest Appearance - September 3, 2020

“Unpacking Addiction” - Guest Appearance - March 10, 2020

“Brain Development and Addictive Cycles” - Guest Appearance - March 5, 2020

Pornography

“Guided IFS Experiential Exercise” - Guest Appearance - February 27, 2023

“Experience Healing Through IFS” - Guest Appearance - February 20, 2023

“IIC 56: What is Essential for Catholics to Recover from Pornography” - IIC Podcast - February 22, 2021

“IIC 55: Why Catholics Use Pornography” - IIC Podcast - February 15, 2021

“A Chink in the Armor: Refortifying Ourselves Against Pornography During COVID-19” - Weekly Reflection - January 20, 2021

“The Porn Pandemic” - Weekly Reflection - October 1, 2020

“Healing From Porn Addiction” - Guest Appearance - September 3, 2020

“Four Signs of an Addiction and Three Steps to Break Free” - Weekly Reflection - June 3, 2020

Power Struggles

“Ending Psychological Power Struggles - Pentecost - Episode 28” - Be With The Word - May 26, 2020

Processing Grief

“IIC 83: The Internal Dance of Healthy Grief” - IIC Podcast - August 30, 2021

Protection

“IIC 93: Three Inner Experiential Exercises” - IIC Podcast - May 2, 2022

Psychological Health

“IIC 15: The Main Sign of Psychological Health” - IIC Podcast - May 11, 2020

Psychology

“Catholic Psychology -- Souls and Hearts” - Guest Appearance - February 15, 2023

Psychosomatic Illnesses

“Psychosomatic Illness” - - February 10, 2021

Real Love

“IIC 36: Why We Flee From Real Love” - IIC Podcast - October 5, 2020

Realistic Expectations

“Surviving the Holiday Blues - 3rd Sunday of Advent - Episode 56” - Be With The Word - December 8, 2020

Receptivity

“Openess vs. Receptivity” - Guest Appearance - April 21, 2021

“IIC 34: Radical Receptivity” - IIC Podcast - September 21, 2020

Recognizing Gifts

“Choosing to Be Grateful - Epiphany - Episode 6” - Be With The Word - December 31, 2019

Reconciliation

“Forgiveness and Divine Mercy - Divine Mercy Sunday - Episode 22” - Be With The Word - April 14, 2020

Recovering from Porn

“IIC 56: What is Essential for Catholics to Recover from Pornography” - IIC Podcast - February 22, 2021

“IIC 55: Why Catholics Use Pornography” - IIC Podcast - February 15, 2021

Relationship with God

“Is this a Spiritual or a Psychological Problem? Spiritual Bypassing, Trauma, and Healing with Dr. Peter Malinoski” - Guest Appearance - September 27, 2023

“The Secret Psychological Reasons We Fail to Make Time for Prayer” - Weekly Reflection - January 4, 2023

“How and Why We Reject God’s Providence” - Weekly Reflection - November 30, 2022

“Why Is Interior Integration Crucial for Union with God?” - Weekly Reflection - October 12, 2022

“IIC 91: Special Episode: The Litanies of the Heart with Dr. Gerry Crete” - IIC Podcast - March 25, 2022

“The Self as Mediator - 30th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 85” - Be With The Word - October 20, 2021

“Openess vs. Receptivity” - Guest Appearance - April 21, 2021

“Learning From Suffering - 5th Sunday of Lent - Episode 68” - Be With The Word - March 17, 2021

“What Is Theoria? - The Epiphany of Our Lord - Episode 59” - Be With The Word - December 29, 2020

“Blind Spots Can Be Deadly - 28th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 47” - Be With The Word - October 6, 2020

“How to Find Peace That Surpasses All Understanding - 27th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 46” - Be With The Word - September 29, 2020

“Being Lost and How To Be Found - 21st Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 40” - Be With The Word - August 18, 2020

“How to Stop Impulsive Behavior - 19th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 38” - Be With The Word - August 4, 2020

“Finding Safety in a Turbulent World - 18th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 37” - Be With The Word - July 28, 2020

“Why It's Okay to Pray Badly - 16th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 35” - Be With The Word - July 14, 2020

“IIC 23: Sinning, God Images and Resilience” - IIC Podcast - July 6, 2020

“Making Spiritual and Social Communions” - Weekly Reflection - June 11, 2020

“The Psychology of Doubt - Ascension - Episode 27” - Be With The Word - May 19, 2020

“Learning How God Delights in Us - 2nd Sunday of Lent - Episode 15” - Be With The Word - March 3, 2020

“How My History with Authority Figures Affects My Relationship with God - 6th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 12” - Be With The Word - February 11, 2020

“Despising in Others What We Don’t Tolerate in Ourselves - 5th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 11” - Be With The Word - February 4, 2020

“Mental Filters Keep Us From Really Knowing Jesus - 2nd Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 8” - Be With The Word - January 14, 2020

“Facing Our Distorted Images of God” - Weekly Reflection - January 2, 2020

“How To Work Through Our Psychological Defenses to Enrich Our Relationship with God and Others” - Weekly Reflection - December 26, 2019

“Believing You Can Change - 1st Sunday of Advent - Episode 1” - Be With The Word - November 26, 2019

Relationships

“IIC 123: Relating Well with Narcissistic Family Members with Dr. Gerry Crete” - IIC Podcast - October 16, 2023

“IIC 122: Narcissism and Gaslighting--What Catholics Should Know” - IIC Podcast - October 2, 2023

“What Your Daydreams Tell You About Your Relationships” - Weekly Reflection - September 20, 2023

“Loving Conversations on Controversial Subjects: A Parts-Informed Approach ” - Weekly Reflection - February 1, 2023

“Temporary Enemies” - Weekly Reflection - March 23, 2022

“Six Reasons Catholics Don't Know their Enemies” - Weekly Reflection - March 16, 2022

“Definition of Enemies” - Weekly Reflection - March 9, 2022

“Three Elements of Loving” - Weekly Reflection - February 17, 2022

“Healing Our Sexual Brokenness - 27th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 84” - Be With The Word - September 29, 2021

“Boundaries Are Good” - - February 5, 2021

“Loving People We Disagree With - 3rd Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 62” - Be With The Word - January 19, 2021

“How to Break Through Relationship Conflicts - Baptism of Our Lord - Episode 60” - Be With The Word - January 6, 2021

“Shift Activities to Avoid the Holiday Blues” - Weekly Reflection - December 16, 2020

“What It Means to Be a Good Man and a Good Father - 4th Sunday of Advent - Episode 57” - Be With The Word - December 15, 2020

“Understanding the Meaning of Beauty in a Family” - Weekly Reflection - September 10, 2020

“Being Lost and How To Be Found - 21st Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 40” - Be With The Word - August 18, 2020

“Finding Safety in a Turbulent World - 18th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 37” - Be With The Word - July 28, 2020

“How to Find Joy Unexpectedly - 17th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 36” - Be With The Word - July 21, 2020

“Addiction is the Opposite of Connection and Intimacy - Corpus Christi - Episode 30” - Be With The Word - June 8, 2020

“The Psychology of Money in the Sacrament of Marriage” - Weekly Reflection - May 28, 2020

“The Need for Community” - Weekly Reflection - May 14, 2020

“Being Docile Through Criticism - 4th Sunday of Easter - Episode 24” - Be With The Word - April 28, 2020

“Transform Conflict Into Better Relationships” - Weekly Reflection - April 23, 2020

“Seven Reasons Why Handwritten Letters Can Be Holy and Healthy” - Weekly Reflection - April 16, 2020

“How Maintaining Relationships Through Disagreements Prepares Us For Heaven” - Weekly Reflection - February 27, 2020

“Despising in Others What We Don’t Tolerate in Ourselves - 5th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 11” - Be With The Word - February 4, 2020

“What to Say to an Abuse Victim” - Weekly Reflection - January 16, 2020

“How To Work Through Our Psychological Defenses to Enrich Our Relationship with God and Others” - Weekly Reflection - December 26, 2019

“Empathy, Sin, and Relationships - 2nd Sunday of Advent - Episode 2” - Be With The Word - December 3, 2019

Resilient

“IIC 31: The One Essential You Must Have to Be Resilient” - IIC Podcast - August 31, 2020

Resilient Catholics Community

“IIC 84: The Who, What, Where, When, Why and How of the IIC Podcast” - IIC Podcast - September 6, 2021

Resistance

“Mask Hysteria” - - August 1, 2021

Resolutions

“The Power of a Word” - Weekly Reflection - January 23, 2020

Revealing Our Unconscious

“Asking Mary to Reveal the Thoughts of our Hearts - Presentation of the Lord - Episode 10” - Be With The Word - January 28, 2020

Roe v. Wade

“Healing in the Wake of Roe V. Wade w/ Dr. Gerry Crete” - Guest Appearance - June 27, 2022

Santa

“Santa and Myth (Gabriel Crawford)” - Weekly Reflection - May 11, 2022

“Santa and Lying” - Weekly Reflection - May 4, 2022

Scrupulosity

“Mary, Our Spiritual Mother, and Scrupulosity” - Weekly Reflection - December 8, 2021

“IIC 87: Scrupulosity: When OCD Gets Religion” - IIC Podcast - December 6, 2021

“Ask a Catholic Therapist ANYTHING! W/ Dr. Gerry Crete” - Guest Appearance - June 17, 2021

“The Key to Stopping Scrupulosity - 3rd Sun of Easter - Episode 71” - Be With The Word - April 14, 2021

“The Roots of Scrupulosity” - Guest Appearance - August 20, 2020

Self-Care

“Mindfulness, Self-Care, and Dealing with Stress” - Guest Appearance - March 26, 2019

Self-Growth

“What’s the Difference Between Life Coaching and Therapy?” - Weekly Reflection - October 15, 2020

“IIC 35: Being Both Big and Small” - IIC Podcast - September 28, 2020

“Changing Yourself First To Help Your Children” - Weekly Reflection - January 9, 2020

Self-Knowledge

“IIC 124: Your Parts, IFS, And War: An Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - October 18, 2023

“How to Help Your Parts Get Their Needs Met by Working with Daydreams” - Weekly Reflection - October 12, 2023

“The Eight Steps to Understand Your Parts Through Exploring Your Daydreams” - Weekly Reflection - October 4, 2023

“What Your Daydreams Tell You About Your Relationships” - Weekly Reflection - September 20, 2023

“IIC 121: Connecting with Your Own Narcissistic Parts: Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - September 18, 2023

“Gently Approaching What Underlies Problematic Daydreams” - Weekly Reflection - September 13, 2023

“Daydreams: The Secular Experts Speak” - Weekly Reflection - July 19, 2023

“IIC 117: Discover the Parts Who Make Up Your "Personality"” - IIC Podcast - July 17, 2023

“IIC 116: Why a Single Personality Is Not Enough” - IIC Podcast - July 3, 2023

“Who Forms Your Clay?” - Weekly Reflection - April 12, 2023

“IIC 110: Being with Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane – Experiential Exercise” - IIC Podcast - April 5, 2023

“Seeing Your Difficulties Through the Eyes of Providence” - Weekly Reflection - December 14, 2022

“Of Mirrors and Identity: The Hardest Question” - Weekly Reflection - September 28, 2022

“Is That "Inner Voice" My Conscience?” - Weekly Reflection - June 8, 2022

“Breaking Free of Power Struggles to Find Joy - 26th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 83” - Be With The Word - September 21, 2021

“IIC 73: Is Internal Family Systems Really Catholic?” - IIC Podcast - June 21, 2021

“IIC 71: A New and Better Way of Understanding Myself and Others” - IIC Podcast - June 7, 2021

“The Importance of Inner Work” - Guest Appearance - May 27, 2021

“What Does It Mean to Be an Introvert? - Ascension - Episode 73” - Be With The Word - May 12, 2021

“Why Do I Avoid God?” - Guest Appearance - March 1, 2021

“Radical Way to Approach Recovery - 2nd Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 61” - Be With The Word - January 13, 2021

“IIC 44: Rape, Incest, Shame, and Silence: A True Story Reexamined, Part 3” - IIC Podcast - November 30, 2020

“IIC 43: Rape, Incest, Shame, and Silence: A True Story Reexamined, Part 2” - IIC Podcast - November 23, 2020

“IIC 41: Rewind: Trauma and Shame in King David's Childhood” - IIC Podcast - November 9, 2020

“IIC 40: Rape, Incest, Shame, and Silence: A True Story Reexamined, Part 1” - IIC Podcast - November 2, 2020

“IIC 38: Seeing the Signs of Shame in Yourself and Others” - IIC Podcast - October 19, 2020

“IIC 35: Being Both Big and Small” - IIC Podcast - September 28, 2020

“Spot Your Strengths in Five Easy Steps” - Weekly Reflection - September 3, 2020

“How Do You Know When You Need Counseling?” - Weekly Reflection - June 25, 2020

“Understanding Justice and Justification” - Weekly Reflection - June 18, 2020

“IIC 14: Soulset: The Core of Us” - IIC Podcast - May 4, 2020

“IIC 6: A Call To Arms: Rise Up, Red-Blooded Catholics” - IIC Podcast - April 6, 2020

“Are You for Real?” - Weekly Reflection - March 5, 2020

“The Secret to Uncover What's Bothering You” - Guest Appearance - February 4, 2020

“Believing You Can Change - 1st Sunday of Advent - Episode 1” - Be With The Word - November 26, 2019

Self-Sufficiency

“Letting Go of Self-Sufficiency - 4th Sunday of Advent - Episode 4” - Be With The Word - December 17, 2019

Service

“Learning From Suffering - 5th Sunday of Lent - Episode 68” - Be With The Word - March 17, 2021

Sexual Brokenness

“Healing Our Sexual Brokenness - 27th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 84” - Be With The Word - September 29, 2021

Sexual Struggles

“Unburdening Sexual Arousal (with Dr. Peter Malinoski)” - Guest Appearance - March 6, 2023

“Anti-Masturbationism – A False Religion” - Weekly Reflection - November 16, 2022

“IIC 49: The Secret Impact of our Shame on our Sexuality” - IIC Podcast - January 4, 2021

Shame

“How Parents Use Their Children To Avoid Feeling Shame” - Weekly Reflection - July 20, 2022

“Shame, the Prayer Killer” - Weekly Reflection - December 15, 2021

“The Key to Stopping Scrupulosity - 3rd Sun of Easter - Episode 71” - Be With The Word - April 14, 2021

“Overcoming Shame Despite Loss and Suffering - Palm Sunday - Episode 69” - Be With The Word - March 26, 2021

“Shame, Shame, Go Away” - - February 15, 2021

“IIC 48: Shame and Repentance: St. Dismas” - IIC Podcast - December 28, 2020

“IIC 47: Shame and Redemption: St. Peter and You” - IIC Podcast - December 21, 2020

“IIC 46: Shame and Tragedy: Judas Iscariot and You” - IIC Podcast - December 14, 2020

“IIC 45: How Shame Leads Us to Idolatry” - IIC Podcast - December 7, 2020

“Overcoming Fear and Getting Unstuck - 33rd Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 52” - Be With The Word - November 10, 2020

“IIC 40: Rape, Incest, Shame, and Silence: A True Story Reexamined, Part 1” - IIC Podcast - November 2, 2020

“The Lies We Tell Ourselves in Life Stories - All Saints Day - Episode 50” - Be With The Word - October 27, 2020

“IIC 39: Seeing the Real, Radical, and Resounding Differences Between Shame and Guilt” - IIC Podcast - October 26, 2020

“IIC 38: Seeing the Signs of Shame in Yourself and Others” - IIC Podcast - October 19, 2020

“IIC 37: The Silent Killer Who Stalks You From Inside” - IIC Podcast - October 12, 2020

“How to Find Peace That Surpasses All Understanding - 27th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 46” - Be With The Word - September 29, 2020

“Addiction is the Opposite of Connection and Intimacy - Corpus Christi - Episode 30” - Be With The Word - June 8, 2020

“A Time for Spiritual and Psychological Growth - Palm Sunday - Episode 19” - Be With The Word - March 31, 2020

“Despising in Others What We Don’t Tolerate in Ourselves - 5th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 11” - Be With The Word - February 4, 2020

Silence

“Our Fear of Silence” - Weekly Reflection - January 19, 2022

“Solitude, Masculinity, and Men’s Health” - Weekly Reflection - April 9, 2020

Sin

“Sin, Self, Free Will, Hell, and IFS: A Conversation” - Weekly Reflection - July 5, 2023

“The Sins of the Parents – Conveniently Denied” - Weekly Reflection - July 13, 2022

“Dangerous Love” - Weekly Reflection - June 22, 2022

“What Is Sin, Really? Seven Ways to Understand Sin” - Weekly Reflection - June 15, 2022

“Is That "Inner Voice" My Conscience?” - Weekly Reflection - June 8, 2022

“Trauma, Sin, and Enemies” - Weekly Reflection - March 30, 2022

“Spiritual Warfare” - Weekly Reflection - February 24, 2022

“Sinful Temptations Often Reveal Legitimate Needs - 1st Sunday of Lent - Episode 14” - Be With The Word - February 21, 2020

“Empathy, Sin, and Relationships - 2nd Sunday of Advent - Episode 2” - Be With The Word - December 3, 2019

Spiritual

“Naturalizing and Spiritualizing: Two Errors Catholics Make” - Weekly Reflection - February 15, 2023

Spiritual Bypassing

“Moving Beyond Catholic Spiritual Bypassing” - Weekly Reflection - March 22, 2023

“The Causes and Effects of Catholic Spiritual Bypassing” - Weekly Reflection - March 15, 2023

“The 15 Symptoms of Catholic Spiritual Bypassing” - Weekly Reflection - March 8, 2023

“The Whys of Catholic Spiritual Bypassing” - Weekly Reflection - March 1, 2023

“Spiritual Bypassing: Catholic Style” - Weekly Reflection - February 22, 2023

“Anger, Wrath, and Vengeance, Oh My! - 24th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 43” - Be With The Word - September 8, 2020

Spiritual Childhood

“IIC 30: How Small and Childlike are We Supposed to Be?” - IIC Podcast - August 24, 2020

Spiritual Formation

“IIC 21: How Secular Experts Get Resilience Wrong” - IIC Podcast - June 22, 2020

“IIC 8: The Chasm Between Psychology and Catholicism” - IIC Podcast - April 12, 2020

Spiritual Health

“The Importance of Inner Work” - Guest Appearance - May 27, 2021

Spiritual Pilgrimage

“Surviving the Holiday Blues - 3rd Sunday of Advent - Episode 56” - Be With The Word - December 8, 2020

Strengths

“Spot Your Strengths in Five Easy Steps” - Weekly Reflection - September 3, 2020

Suicidal Thoughts

“IIC 80: How to Help a Loved One Who is Suicidal” - IIC Podcast - August 9, 2021

Superiority Complex

“Understanding Superiority Complexes - 30th Sunday of Ordinary Time - Episode 49” - Be With The Word - October 20, 2020

Symptoms

“The 15 Symptoms of Catholic Spiritual Bypassing” - Weekly Reflection - March 8, 2023

Symptoms of Trauma

“IIC 88: Trauma: Defining and Understanding the Experience” - IIC Podcast - January 3, 2022

Technology

“Pros & Cons of Video Counseling” - Weekly Reflection - August 6, 2020

“Smart Parenting in the Smartphone Era: Part II Using Resources” - Weekly Reflection - February 13, 2020

“Smart Parenting in the Smartphone Era Part I: Know the Risks” - Weekly Reflection - February 6, 2020

“How to Manage Teens and Screens” - Weekly Reflection - December 6, 2019

Thanksgiving

“On Vaccine Mandates, Contempt, Families and Thanksgiving…” - Weekly Reflection - November 23, 2021

“Embrace a Healthy and Holy Attitude of Gratitude” - Weekly Reflection - November 28, 2019

Theoria

“What Is Theoria? - The Epiphany of Our Lord - Episode 59” - Be With The Word - December 29, 2020

Therapy

“Subjectivism and Catholic Therapy” - Weekly Reflection - December 22, 2021

“What’s the Difference Between Life Coaching and Therapy?” - Weekly Reflection - October 15, 2020

“Pros & Cons of Video Counseling” - Weekly Reflection - August 6, 2020

“Why a Catholic Therapist?” - Weekly Reflection - July 2, 2020

“How Do You Know When You Need Counseling?” - Weekly Reflection - June 25, 2020

“What’s the Past Got to Do With It?” - Weekly Reflection - February 20, 2020

“How to Find the Right Counselor” - Weekly Reflection - December 19, 2019

“How to Manage Teens and Screens” - Weekly Reflection - December 6, 2019

Thoughts

“The Importance of Positive Thinking” - Weekly Reflection - January 13, 2021

“Thought Labeling Helps Us Slow Down” - Weekly Reflection - July 16, 2020

“The Secret to Uncover What's Bothering You” - Guest Appearance - February 4, 2020

Traumatic Reenactment

“Why We Do Wicked Things - 4th Sunday of Lent - Episode 67” - Be With The Word - March 10, 2021

Uncertainty

“God's Ways are Not Our Ways - Easter Sunday - Episode 21” - Be With The Word - April 8, 2020

Unmet Needs

“What Your Daydreams Tell You About Your Relationships” - Weekly Reflection - September 20, 2023

“Your Daydreams Reveal Your Secret, Unmet Needs” - Weekly Reflection - September 6, 2023

Unresolved Shame

“IIC 45: How Shame Leads Us to Idolatry” - IIC Podcast - December 7, 2020

Unresolved Trauma

“IIC 95: Trauma's Devastating Impact on Our Capacity to Love” - IIC Podcast - July 4, 2022

War

“Your Parts, IFS, and War in the Middle East” - Weekly Reflection - October 18, 2023

“Ukraine” - Weekly Reflection - March 2, 2022

Who We Are

“Discovering Who You Are” - Guest Appearance - January 30, 2020

Window of Tolerance

“Window of Tolerance - 3rd Sunday of Lent - Episode 66” - Be With The Word - March 3, 2021