Dear Souls and Hearts Members,

I am pleased to offer a follow up to last week’s reflection On The Metaphysics Of The Human Person by Monty De La Torre, Ph.D. I greatly appreciate how Dr. De La Torre integrates his background in metaphysics with parts work informed by Internal Family Systems approaches to human formation, and his reflection generated so much interest and appreciation from our subscribers.

Last week, we worked together to understand who we are; this week, we will explore...

Dear Souls and Hearts Members,

I am excited and honored to provide a forum for Catholic philosopher Monty De La Torre to share with us some metaphysical foundations to better understand who we are as human persons. We need to understand who we are in order to know how to change, how to embrace a wholesome human formation that facilitates us following the two great commandments with their three loves: loving God, neighbor, and ourselves in an ordered way.

If you don’t understand the...

Dear Souls and Hearts Members,

May the Risen Lord continue to grant Easter blessings to you in this holy season.

A look back at previous reflections on human formation…

• March 29, 2023: Catholic Understandings of Human Formation. In this reflection we defined the what of human formation, orienting ourselves to understanding the meaning of it.

• April 5, 2023: Catholic Human Formation is a Lifelong Pilgrimage. In this one, we explored the when of human formation, how it spans your...

Dear Souls and Hearts Members,

Happy Easter to you! The Lord is truly risen. I hope you can fully enter into the joy of this season. May God bless and keep you.

Two weeks ago, we began a new series of weekly reflections on human formation, beginning with the March 29 reflection titled Catholic Understandings of Human Formation. In that reflection we defined what human formation is. Last week’s reflection, Catholic Human Formation is a Lifelong Pilgrimage focused on the when of...

Dear ­­­Souls and Hearts Members,

Last week, we began a new series with the weekly reflection titled Catholic Understandings of Human Formation. In this reflection, we will explore the “when” of human formation.

We have all heard that our “formative years” are so important in our development as human beings. But what are the formative years? UNICEF, among many other organizations interested in human development, categorizes the critical formative years as...

Dear Souls and Hearts Members,

We are embarking together on a new series of weekly reflections to lay the foundation and build the framework for an authentically Catholic understanding of human formation – and then broadening that foundation and framework to include ordinary Catholic laymen and laywomen – like you.

Importance of human formation to the Catholic Church

More than three decades ago on March 25, 1992, Pope St. John Paul II released an apostolic exhortation titled ...

Dear Souls and Hearts Members,

Welcome to the fifth and final weekly reflection in our series on Catholic spiritual bypassing. To lead off this week's reflection, I'm sharing a testimony which is so relevant and important to our discussion on spiritual bypassing.

Gabriel’s story 

Gabriel Crawford is a convert to Catholicism and a mental health counselor who regularly reads these weekly reflections. He has given us all a gift: the gift of his story. He provides us such a clear...

Dear Souls and Hearts members,

This is the fourth in a series of reflections on spiritual bypassing. The previous reflections set us up for a deeper understanding of the causes and effects of spiritual bypassing:

• February 22, 2023 Spiritual Bypassing: Catholic Style
• March 1, 2023 The Whys of Catholic Spiritual Bypassing
• March 8, 2023 The 15 Symptoms of Catholic Spiritual Bypassing

Today, we will examine the article Exploring Experts’ Perspectives on Spiritual Bypass: a...

Dear Souls and Hearts Members,

Five days ago, I discovered a paper titled Exploring Experts’ Perspectives on Spiritual Bypass: a Conventional Content Analysis, by Gabriela Picciotto and Jesse Fox from the February 2018 volume of Pastoral Psychology – I have to share the findings with you as they are so relevant to our series on spiritual bypassing.

This journal article, based on ten interviews with U.S. experts on spiritual bypassing, presents the current consensus on the...

Dear Souls and Hearts Members,

Last week, in the reflection titled Spiritual Bypassing: Catholic Style I introduced and defined spiritual bypassing. We covered the “what” of spiritual bypassing, and we came up with this summary:

The three critical components of spiritual bypassing are as follows:

• Spiritual ideas, practices, or actions must be misused

• to avoid, evade, or escape 

• emotional or psychological distress,

• acknowledging deficits in one’s...